Facebook Users May Overestimate Their Friends’ Happiness

/—/ These results come from Stanford University, which surveyed students about their moods and what they thought their friends were feeling. When the researchers compared the friends’ actual moods, they found that students underestimate their friends’ negative feelings and overestimate the positive, which in turn made respondents unhappy because they felt less normal.

As lead researcher Alex Jordan says, “People think, ‘Why am I alone on a Saturday night’ or, ‘Why I am not in a relationship?’ When people overestimate the happiness of friends, they felt more negatively about their own lives.” The study revealed that the misattribution of friends’ feelings happened even between people who knew each other very well.

The more students underestimated the negative emotions of their friends, the more their feelings of loneliness increased—a trend that Catalina Toma of the University of Wisconsin says can be emotionally harmful to passive Facebook users. She writes, “People naturally compare themselves to those around them, a process known as social comparison. If you perceive yourself to be doing better than your friends in an area that is important for you the social comparison will make you feel good. However, if you think your friends surpass you in an area that’s important to your self-concept, you will likely feel dejected as a result of the comparison.”

What Happens When You Deactivate Your Facebook Account

”/—/ That man considered quitting Facebook because it was having an adverse emotional impact on him and I’ll spare him and his contacts from posting the screenshot he shared with me. I have posted below though a shot of the screen I saw when I clicked that button myself. Check it out. I bet you haven’t seen this screen before, have you?

Can you believe that? How incredibly manipulative! And what claims to make. Facebook has undoubtedly made it easier to keep in touch with people than almost any other technology on the planet, but to say that leaving Facebook means your friends “will no longer be able to keep in touch with you” is just wrong. Facebook often says little things like this that read like it thinks it has a monopoly on human connection. /—/ According to one report, adding these photos of friends is keeping 1 million people per year from deactivating their account. Admittedly, this is also kind of funny at the same time.

This is just loaded with obnoxiousness. /—/”

Does Facebook Really Want a Semantic Web?

“Two weeks ago, Facebook has announced a major new initiative called Facebook Open Graph. This is an attempt to not only re-imagine Facebook, but in a lot of ways, an attempt to re-define how the Web works. We wrote in details about the implications of this move for all interested parties.

A big part of the announcement is Facebook’s vision of a consumer Semantic Web. In this new world, publishers have an incentive to annotate pages by marking up activities, events, people, movies, books, music and more. The proper markup, would in turn, lead to a much more interconnected Web - people would be connected with each other across websites and around the things they are interested in.

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All of these facts when added together lead to the obvious conclusion: Facebook’s goal is not to create a better, more structured Web. Instead, it appears that semantics is an afterthought in the race to capture user identity and information, in exchange for sending publishers the traffic.”